The Co-Elevate Podcast with Shana

How Men Approach Dating: What Every WOMAN Wants to Know!

Shana Ginsburg Season 1 Episode 5

Have you ever wondered how men approach dating? Are you curious why men struggle to communicate their feelings? Do you want to know what they are least and most attracted to in a woman? I surveyed my 800+ Instagram followers and had my best friend and former solar manager Blade Edwards answer their questions based on his perspective and experiences! Stay tuned to learn about all things dating from a man's perspective and apply his insights to spruce up your dating life! 

If you loved what Blade had to say, be sure to follow him on Instagram @bladeedwards!

01:17 - Who is Blade Edwards?

01:29 - The funny story of how Blade & I met 

04:11 - What Blade was like before doing personal development work

09:15 - Why I chose Blade to talk to women

11:08 - My struggle of being vulnerable with men

15:36 - Why do guys ghost?

19:09 - How do you let a girl know that you like her?

22:43 - What a lack of communication from a guy means

24:30 - Should the girl make the first move?

24:50 - Masculine/Feminine energies Recap

28:37 - Signs that a girl is open to being kissed

30:44 - How long would a guy wait for a woman before having sex?

35:26 - The most common topic amongst men when they hang out

38:04 - Why do men struggle with confrontation?

37:35 - How your childhood affects the way you view the world now

43:51 - Why do guys text dry?

49:17 - How to tell when a guy is genuinely interested or just wants to have sex

51:52 - Conversation about ‘men just want to have sex'

55:38 - The challenge of letting your guard down with a man

56:17 - When a woman says “I don’t need a man"
 
01:00:40 - Do you think dating is one big “waste of time?"

01:01:39 - Blade’s philosophy on being hurt

01:02:54 - The fear of constantly being let down in dating

01:06:02 - The topic of women being independent 

01:07:22 - Why are some men not attracted to independence?

01:10:58  - A woman’s need to control

01:15:06 - You don’t need to change who you are for a man

01:16:57 - Should the girl offer to pay on the first date?

01:18:57 - How a man can protect a woman on a date

01:19:56 - Why is it difficult for guys to communicate their emotions?

01:20:14 - The difference between male/female communities

01:26:14 - What is a man’s biggest insecurity?

01:29:21  - Biggest personality turn on with girls

01:30:55 - Is it attractive when girls are forward? 
 
01:32:46 - How important are looks to men?

01:33:00 - Do you want a woman who is opposite of or similar to you?

01:34:52 - What’s an instant turn off to a man?

01:37:07 - How do you plan to keep relationship alive after being comfortable for so long?

01:39:12 - What’s the #1 thing men look for?

01:41:22- The biggest roadblock you see with women on dates

01:46:40 - What do you think is a woman's biggest misconception about men?

01:48:39 - Why men and women hurt each other

01:48:42 - What type of men you should look for

01:51:04 - Blade's coaching to YOU

01:53:00 - Wrap Up/Conclusion